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EmmaLacey
11-23-2007, 12:05 PM
My daughter Emma was born on May 10th, 2007 with no complications or anything out of the ordinary. When she was about 1 month old we were sent to our local hospital for an Xray because she didn't have a soft spot and there was a ridge on the top of her head. My pediatrician told me that probably what happened was her skull was a little squished during the birth and that the plates of bone were touching or overlapping. She said that over time they would open up on their own. The Xray was just a precaution to make sure nothing else was wrong. She never said the "C" word to me, but I know now that they were looking for it. The XRay came back normal and we pretty much put it behind us. At her 2 month and 4 month checkups the doctor again noted that the soft spot was still missing but she told me that it was probably just slow to open after the birth and because the Xray had come back normal we should just wait.

I was still not worried at this point because my doctor didn't seem to be and I still hadn't heard anyone say Craniosynostosis. Which, even if I had I wouldn't have known what it was because like most people, I had never heard of it. I do think that if I had been given the chance I would have read about it online and maybe figured it out on my own that Emma had this.

Fast forward to the 6 month checkup. We saw a different doctor for this well check visit and when it was all over and she had been given her shots he asked me if I had any questions or concerns. It occured to me to ask him to check her head to make sure all was well with her soft spot. He did and asked me a couple of questions about her Xray that she had months earlier. He told me he was going to talk to her regular doctor and someone would call me. I was a little concerned, but not too worried at this point. The next day her ped. called me and started talking about specialists and Neurosurgeons and Plastic Surgeons and we needed to see someone as soon as possible. I was getting worried at this point. She finally said the "C" word to me and I wrote it down after she spelled it. I made the appointment at Connecticut Children's Medical Center in Hartford for 1 week later and started researching online. Once I found this site and saw pictures of all your little munchkins from the "bird's eye view" I knew that Emma had this condition. Her head is very long and narrow like so many other Sagittal babies, but it never occured to me before that this was something that would require surgery to correct. I just thought she took after her Papa!

Well, the week passed and off we were to CCMC. I was still hoping that she didn't have it and by some miracle they would tell us that she will be okay in a few months and it would fix itself. Well, within 30 seconds of the Craniofacial team entering the room they were taking about surgery. Yes, she had it and yes they could fix it. They assured us that it was completely cosmetic and the condition wouldn't affect her developmentally. I was relieved about that but still very very scared. I started to cry and kiss the top of my baby's head. The nurse, who was really nice and helped us to feel better about the whole thing, was telling us more about the surgery and the swelling and the possibility of a blood transfusion.

Fast forward to today. We have a surgery date of December 13th. We are meeting the Neurosurgeon on December 11th for the first time as he wasn't there the day we say all the doctors. It has been determined that a Plastic Surgeon won't be needed as her forehead won't need reconstruction. I think from what they said that day she will be having the strip surgery and no helmet. I guess I will find out more in detail on December 11th (only two days before surgery) what they will be doing. The Doctor's name is Paul Kanev and he is very booked up. They were going to make us wait to book the surgery at the Dec 11th appointment. they said it wouldn't be until January. We didn't want to wait that long so we were able to get in earlier becuase of her age. Emma will be 7 months old when she has her surgery.

I'm glad to have found this website.

Update: Emma's surgery correction was called the "PI Procedure" with a "squeeze" technique. The PI procedure refers to cuts made in the skull to open it up width ways. The squeeze was what they did to shorten the length a little. This is why she did not need a helmet becuase her new head shape was immediate and now her brain can reshape itself inside the new "box" and continue to grow in all directions.

charliesmummy
11-23-2007, 03:33 PM
Welcome to Cranio Kids and thank you for sharing your story. This site is fantastic and the people on here are so supportive, i couldnt have coped without them. My son had surgery on 6th September for Metopic & he is completely back to normal. I wish you luck with Emma's surgery & please feel free to ask questions as there is always someone to help. x

EmmaLacey
11-23-2007, 04:32 PM
Thanks for the welcome. I love your avatar picture. So encouraging to see the little trooper all bandaged up, giving a wave.

sarahob
11-23-2007, 04:44 PM
Welcome to CranioKids Nancy. I'm glad you found us. CranioKids was my lifeline the weeks that preceded Gavin's surgery. Gavin had surgery for saggital one month ago. He was a few days shy of his first birthday when he had the surgery and is doing amazing. Please ask us any questions.

EmmaLacey
11-23-2007, 05:47 PM
Thank you Sarah for the warm welcome. I have been reading about Gavin for over a week now. His before and after pictures are absolutely amazing. I am living in Connecticut but am originally from Orillia, Ontario. I am a fellow Canuck! When I first saw one of your posts with Gavin's picture on it I felt like his head shape was similar to Emma's. She is only 6 months old so her forehead isn't quite as pronounced as Gavin's was, but the narrowness of her temple area is similar. I'm trying to post pictures but am having technical difficulty! Stay tuned.

Momof2Boys
11-24-2007, 12:16 AM
Welcome Nancy! I too have a three year old and my son who was born on 5/1/07 just had surgery over a month ago. We knew when he was born something was going on with his head and it was confirmed at 1 month of age. This site is wonderful and the support made this journey a little easier and helped prepare myself for his surgery.

charliesmummy
11-24-2007, 07:19 AM
Oh Nancy, Emma is absolutely beautiful. What a gorgeous smile she has x

jenniferann75
11-24-2007, 04:33 PM
Hi Nancy, I'm so glad that you were able to post and share Emma's story. She is a cutie!!

EmmaLacey
11-24-2007, 05:02 PM
Thank you to everyone for the warm welcome. You are a great group of Moms and we all have something in common......we love our kids and would give them the world!!!!!!! I'm sure you all feel the same way as I do. I wish I could have this surgery for her.

melsch
11-26-2007, 09:44 AM
What a cutie! Thanks for sharing your story!

jenniferh
11-26-2007, 10:39 PM
Welcome Nancy. What a roller coaster of a ride you've been through. Thanks for sharing your story. The pics you have of Emma remind me so much of my daughter Addison, pre-surgery. It makes me miss her being small and her little sagittal noggin'. haha. Well, I wish you the best. I know times are stressfull right now, the waiting is one of the hardest parts. I know everything will work out and it will be over and done before you know it. We will be thinking about you as Emma's surgery date approaches. Keep us up to date :)

EmmaLacey
11-27-2007, 08:28 AM
Awww! Addison is so cute. Love the flower headband!! Thank you for your kind words. I have a miserable 3 year old right now. She has a cold and can't blow her nose. Seems she has been sick since the day she started preschool. I just hope Emma doesn't get it.